I promoted the design and shaping of new products Open event (April 28-30, 2026 in Las Vegas), so I can now share more about it. Let me tell you the core focus and purpose of this event.
The magnetic core is Open Very simple. it is harmonious.
Harmony within you. Harmony between appearance and reality.
This is a huge issue in today’s world, isn’t it?
Harmony comes true
In my 20s, I discovered how easily my life could be thrown out of balance by elevating certain pursuits at the expense of others, such as overwork and lack of entertainment.
Freedom, growth, and creativity are very important to me, so I spent several years thinking about how to align with these values. Now that I’m in my 50s (turning 55 this month), I’m extremely grateful for the work my younger self put into putting this work into practice. It’s not easy, but it is doable.
Another challenge is figuring out how to reconcile richness and resourcefulness. It was a huge success and aligned well with my other priorities. Finally I created Deep and rich integration The course guides people through a 30-day in-depth study. It’s rewarding to watch people go through this transition, and it’s really not about money, but about whether we’re ready to trust life more. Abundance is a gift we receive from life when we are ready, not something we need to chase.
One of the most beautiful rewards has been the infusion of so much love into my life. My wife Rachelle and I have been together for over 16 years and we are very much in love. Our wedding anniversary is tomorrow. I have been lucky enough to have spent most of my adult life in two very loving, long-term relationships. My first marriage ended many years ago, but I never stopped being in tune with love.
Lately I have been practicing loving everyone. A powerful realization came that I didn’t need anyone’s permission to love them. I can feel love in any direction I want, and being in harmony with love in many different directions has proven to be really beneficial and healthy for me.
I also work on aligning growth, joy, play, wonder, embodiment, exploration, contribution, and more. Having everything work together is more helpful than trying to do it piecemeal. Ask for it all.
This “resonance first” approach has served me well for decades. To this day, I still find it crucial to manage my life by making vibrational decisions first, such as choosing cooperation over competition, or wisdom over despair. This works well in all areas of life. The end result is a very satisfying, enjoyable and enjoyable life.
If this were unrealistic, I expected my life to fall apart many years ago, but it turned out to be the opposite. In recent years, this harmony has become even stronger and deeper. This is not entirely my personal behavior. Most of them came as a series of gifts, each arriving just when I was ready to receive it.
As I work harder to harmonize different areas of my life, I find that the harmonization process begins to take on a life of its own. I felt a deeper intelligence working with me. I created Diving course Help others explore this way of participating in life as well.
It’s not about trying harder or pushing for more. My life is the opposite of hustle culture. I enjoy lots of stimulating activities, but this is harmoniously balanced with other atmospheres that support me living my best life. Rachel and I started the week off with a massage first thing on Monday morning, so we started our work week in a relaxing and enjoyable way. Then we hosted a Zoom call at the Conscious Growth Club about embodied wisdom. See how well it fits?
What initiates the flow of these gifts in life? What allows greater harmony to emerge? There are many answers to this, but one of the keys is trust.
In order to truly believe in this reality, we must believe that reality is smart, Not just random, chaotic, or rules-based. Then, when we believe reality is intelligent, the other big question is how to interact with and be attuned to that intelligence. It’s been a big part of my life’s journey over the years. This awareness has become integrated into my daily life now. I seek to attune to and work with this wisdom many times a day. I’d say it’s been taking good care of me lately.
the limit of personal effort
I discovered not long ago that there are limits to how harmonious my life can become through personal effort. I think this is because the effort itself is often dissonant. If we try too hard to reconcile with life, it will eventually backfire. Therefore, if we truly want to create and live a truly harmonious life in collaboration with the wisdom of life, there comes a point where we must give up the effort. This includes letting go and releasing anything that is holding us back from receiving more gifts. I’ve learned a lot about letting go of old limitations.
At some point, greater harmony requires relaxation, trust, receptivity, and surrender to the deeper organizational wisdom. I wouldn’t call it a leap of faith. For me, it’s a journey of perception and attunement. When I feel ready, the next steps will reveal themselves.
In recent years, I’ve paid special attention to when life seems to invite me to experience or explore new things or engage with reality in a different way. Wow, it does that often. I just have to open myself up to notice this more.
There was no way I could have engineered a relationship with Rachel. I will not ask for long-distance international relationships with Canadians. No dating app can achieve this. This relationship is a huge gift. Every day is a gift. We were so good to each other – full of love, care, enthusiasm, fun, affection, adventure, laughter and so much more. We are also each other’s best friends. I love being married to my best friend.
For years, my life has been filled with “I love yous” every day, not just literally, but energetically. I feel so richly supported in life. I have to admit, a lot of this is not my doing, at least not pursuing and achieving goals like you see in the movies.
Many of the great turning points in my life have happened because of invitations. Other than acknowledging that I can’t always pinpoint exactly what specifically triggers those invitations when I’m receptive and ready to accept them.
Throughout my life I have seen upgraded spines in the form of invitations given at the right time. Invitation to event. Join a group. Doing my first ayahuasca ceremony. Sometimes saying “yes” takes courage, and I’ve been richly rewarded as I have become more determined and trusting in life. Part of me can sense when invitations are important to my path in life.
Some invitations are internal. My inner curiosity about new things, some exploration, and giving it room to breathe. What will happen if you go to Disneyland for 30 days in a row? Loving sex every day for four months? Want to travel and catch a plane in a day or two? This experience is wonderful and exciting. They reveal a lot.
Now I understand that I can simply let life say “I love you” without me having to fight for it. When we are ready, we can allow this frequency of presence to enter our lives. This is where greater harmony begins to emerge and aspects of life begin to fit together like a puzzle.
Even when I see parts of the outside world exploring what seems like chaos, I still see wisdom flowing through it. Life is a place full of exploration and many lessons, and we are all involved in different aspects of it. It all makes sense.
As I see people exploring vastly different frequency ranges, my own frequency range becomes clearer and clearer to me—a path of love, harmony, wisdom, collaboration, and joy.
your invitation Open
Open This is a space designed to support the emergence of greater harmony in your life. It is a space of invitation, permission and reception. exist Open You will be guided through a series of vessels to help you unlock the flow of intelligent collaboration and support in your life. Within each container, I will take you through an inner journey of unique reflective exercises and experiences to help you bring more harmony and wisdom to your life.
field Open Designed to help you notice dissonance, eliminate friction, and develop a more harmonious relationship with yourself, others, and life.
Imagine being in a room where everyone has the intention and desire to make their own lives and the lives of everyone else there more harmonious. It is a very beautiful space to live in, a space filled with inclusivity, positive expectations, and the joyful and intelligent gifts that flow from the wisdom of life.
I feel ready to provide guidance to those who are willing to embrace this lifestyle. I had received clear signals that the time was ripe for this invitation. Now, feel what this awakens in you. Some doors cannot be opened by force. They open through preparation.
